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Be Generous With Your Love- Part II

Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

The second part of “being generous with your love” is to share that love with others.  (The first part being giving love to yourself, which I wrote about in my previous blog.)

The more you love yourself, the easier it is to love others and  the more you will notice things to love about them.

You will not be jealous of others’ good points when you know you have many of your own.  You will realize that each person simply has different lovable things that make up who they are.  There is no scarcity of loveable traits to go around. (more…)

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Be Generous With Your Love

Friday, April 12th, 2013

I’m talking about two types of generosity here:  The first type is generosity toward yourself; the second is generosity toward others.

The most common, perhaps only, root of the “problems” that clients present to me is a lack of self-love.  Technically, it’s a forgetting of the self-love that we all have.  Before we made the choice to come here, we knew who we were.  The big cosmic joke is that when we get here we have forgotten who we are:  radiant beings with the power of the Universe within us.  Our lives, hopefully, become the process of remembering who we are, and expanding our souls as we do.

Clients often ask me how they can learn to love themselves.  My two best pieces of advice are these:  know yourself, and act like you love yourself. (more…)

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Selfishness Has a Bad Name

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Really, I’m serious.  We are all told that being selfish is a bad thing, right?  Well, I disagree.  I think that if we all started to put ourselves first, the world would be a better place.

You may be thinking:  But what about doing things for others?  (more…)

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What’s Your “Learning Edge”?

Friday, March 1st, 2013

You may or may not have heard this term, “learning edge”.  I first heard it when I was in life coaching school at The Hendricks Institute, about ten years ago.  My definition of it is basically this:  the thing that the Universe is presenting to you as your current opportunity for growth.

I have found over the years that it does behoove me to pay attention to what keeps coming up for me.  For better or for worse, God/dess does not give up on us.  If we don’t get the learning the first time, it will continue to be presented in less and less subtle ways, until we get it.  I’ve had some “growth” that felt a bit like being hit over the head with a hammer.  These days, I am able to get the learning before it gets to that point. (more…)

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Squirting 102 (Prerequisite: Squirting 101)

Saturday, January 19th, 2013

I really have a lot to say about squirting.  That’s what happens with the topics I love, like blow jobs.

Today I am going to help you find your way around a G-spot.

But first I want to say this: (more…)

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Love Is…On The Sheets!

Thursday, January 10th, 2013

You know how some people are self-taught musicians?  Well, I am a self-taught squirter.  Never heard of that?  Well, I’m coining a new phrase then.

It all started when the man I was dating years ago, in my first quasi-polyamorous relationship, introduced the subject.  Unbeknownst to me at the time, one of his other partners was a squirter, and he thought it was pretty cool.  So he started showing me porn with women squirting.  Prior to that, I had heard of it, but hadn’t actually seen any squirting. (more…)

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Not Just Two, but Three Types of Sacred Union

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

In the past, I have written about the two types of sacred union:  sacred union in the one body, and sacred union in the two bodies.  It is my life purpose to learn and teach about sacred union.  It was recently revealed to me in a channeling session that there are in fact three types of sacred union. (more…)

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Things You Can See in a Strip Club

Sunday, December 9th, 2012

Last night, I went to a strip club with  some friends.  They had read my book, “The Naked Truth”, and told me they wanted to go to a strip club but were scared to go alone.  So, they twisted my arm ;) and got me to go with them.

They found an awesome little “hole in the wall” type of place, the kind of place I used to love to work at.  In fact, I was having fantasies of coming out of retirement just to work there, it looked so fun!  (And, I’m not.) (more…)

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Still on the Self-Compassion Kick

Tuesday, November 20th, 2012

I do want to share with you more of the self-compassion techniques that I referenced in my last blog, “Self-Compassion is the Antidote to Suffering”.  As you may have surmised, I was often times in a desperate state during the time period I am now choosing to call my “dark night of the soul”.  I had the benefit of having a very dear friend channel for me when I felt like I just couldn’t take it anymore and needed some guidance from non-physical. (more…)

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Self-Compassion is the Antidote to Suffering

Saturday, November 17th, 2012

As I mentioned in my blog last week, titled “I Love”, I have been on a long, amazing journey of growth and discovery.  Probably the most important thing I learned in the past eighteen months:  the difference between pain and suffering is self-compassion.

One of the best definitions I have ever found for the word pain was written by Kahlil Gibran in “The Prophet”.  My college boyfriend gave me that book quite a few (!) years ago, and I still think of this quote sometimes:  “Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.”  We all know when we are in pain, but have we ever really thought about what pain is?  I have felt a lot of pain during this process.  Much of the time I turned it into suffering through the way that I chose to think about it. (more…)

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