As those of you who read my blog regularly know, I rarely go on a rant about anything….and I feel once coming on. Just sayin’
This particular rant got triggered by a post I read the other day, in which a Facebook friend of mine (whom I don’t know personally) stated that she was “curious” about the poly lifestyle and then went on to judge it as being not only morally wrong but inferior to the monogamous lifestyle. First of all, let’s call a spade a spade: “curiosity” and judgment are two very different things.
I’m not saying this judgment goes one way. I have seen those that are into polyamyory judging the monogamous lifestyle as well. I myself am guilty as having presented polyamory, or at least non-monogamy, as being the “natural” way for all of us. I have since changed my mind about that, but nevertheless- I said it. (more…)