I don’t know about you, but I get bored with doing the same things over and over. Take food. I get on “food kicks” where I love, love, love, eating a particular food. And then- I don’t. Currently it’s Caprese Salad for me. It’s the same with sex. If you have a long term partner, chances are you have gotten into a sex routine with each other. You know what works. You do it. Over and over….I’m getting bored just thinking about it! So below are 50 ways to get things exciting again:
1. Try having sex at a different time of day than usual.
2. Have sex on the kitchen counter.
3. Take a hike in the woods and have sex up against a tree.
4. Let your partner blindfold you and tittilate your senses with items found around the house.
5. Have sex every day for a week- in increases testosterone, which increases libido in both men and women.
6. If your partner is a man, make out with him a lot. You will get more testosterone just from his saliva.
7. Go sex toy shopping together.
8. Go lingerie shopping together.
9. While you’re at it, go lingerie shopping at Victoria’s Secret and secretly sneak your partner into the dressing room- you know, the big one with the couch, and get a little frisky on the couch!
10. Tie your partner up (with permission) and have your way with him (0r her).
11. Change roles next time.
12. Share you innermost fantasies.
13. Make them come true.
14. Watch a sexy movie together. (Nine and a Half Weeks, for example)
15. Find out about some unusual kind of orgasm (like the lip orgasm, for example) and practice having one.
16. Have sex on the bathroom counter.
17. Show up at his/her work, close the door, and do something strictly forbidden.
18. Go to the strip club together and get a lap dance or seven!
19. Go to the drive in movies and get hot and heavy in the car like they used to do on Happy Days.
20. Go out dancing together. It’s a very sensual thing to do.
21. Drive separate cars to a public place, pretend you’re just meeting for the first time, and do outlandish things.
22. Dress up and role play your favoriety fantasy.
23. Cook dinner for your partner wearing nothing but and apron.
24. Go to a nearby hotel. It’s more fun to do it anywhere but your own bed.
25. Go skinny dipping together.
26. Go to the movies, sit in the back row, and grope each other in the dark.
27. Play one of those childhood games- leapfrog comes to mind!
28. Find out how many foods in your fridge or freezer taste good on your parner’s body.
29. Let your partner shave you….down there.
30. Use ylang ylang oil to give your male or female partner a hand job.
31. If you’re woman, wear a dress with no panties, go out and tell your partner over dinner what you’re not wearing. Then, see how fast you can get home.
32. Or, heck, do it in the car like a teenager.
33. Do it on your desk.
34. Take a bath together.
35. Text your parnter something really sexy at a very unexpected time.
36. Buy roses, tear the petals off, and take turns showering each other’s naked bodies with them.
37. Kiss your partner in unexpected places.
38. Draw a body map for each other with the numbers one to ten on it….have the numbers indicate where you want foreplay to start, then next, then next….
39. Get something yummy in your mouth, like chocolate pudding, and share in with your mouths during kissing.
40. Kiss your parter from head to toe, not missing an inch!
41. Buy a book about sexual positions and try all the ones that won’t put you in traction.
42. Put on some songs you used to hear when you first met, hold hands, and sing badly while driving in the car.
43. Get his and hers (or, hers and hers; his and his) massages.
44. Have a day at home (alone together!) where no clothes are allowed.
45. Go to a bar and have sex in the men’s room stall.
46. Wrtite love letters and read them aloud to each other.
47. Read porn aloud to each other.
48. Give your partner a sip of champagne- with your mouth.
48. Try the ol’ Altoids-in-the-mouth-during-a-blow-job.
49. Get a sex instruction manual and try all the techniques on each other.
50. Use your imagination, see how many more you can think of!