Posts Tagged ‘tantra’

This is Tantra

Tuesday, January 15th, 2013

There’s a part of the story about what happened after my boyfriend and I had a talk the other night that I haven’t told you yet.  As if it weren’t enough that I got to put all my advice about talking with your partner into practice, and then got the payoff of having all that amazing S.E.X. with him, I had yet another profound experience. (more…)

Music, Sex, and Cookies

Tuesday, August 14th, 2012

Back when I was in college I used to go to these live music events at that Student Center.  It would usually be small, local performers (which in my opinion are often the best ones) doing songs they had written.  I remmember one time this guy came with his acoustic guitar and one of his songs was called “Music, Sex, and Cookies”.  (I’m sorry, acoustic guitar playing singer guy, I don’t remember your name, so I can’t give you proper credit.  If anyone out there knows who I’m talking about, please email me.)  I liked the song so much I bought the tape.  Haha, now I’m really admitting just how long ago it was.  CD’s hadn’t even been invented yet!   The tape has long since been discarded, and the song went something like this:  “Music, sex, and cookies.  Cookies, music, and sex.  Bla, bla, bla, bla, bla, bla, bla, ’cause  I like them all the best.”  The point was, they were the guy’s three favorite things in the world.  Now, at the time, I really thought he was onto something.  I, myself, couldn’t even think of anything better, which will tell you just how much I love cookies!

So today I was looking back at some old channeling notes.  I have about two years worth of notes, and with the early ones I used to literally write down every word of what was being said.  In my notes from December 14th, 2010, I saw that I wrote:  “We need to go back to the Source through meditation, prayer, and sex.”  Hmmmm, I know it’s not music, sex, and cookies, and I’m willing to change my three favorite things to meditation, prayer, and sex.  Despite the fact that they don’t seem to go together in a snappy little tune in my head.  And despite the fact that if most people saw the words  “meditation, prayer and sex” together and they were playing that game on Sesame Street when they sing:  “One of these things is not like the others”, they’d pick sex.  Although you see, the only reason why we think that sex does not belong with meditation and prayer is that we have been conditioned to think that sex is evil, shameful, and bad for thousands of years.  In fact, if I were playing that Sesame Street game, and I saw the words “evil, shameful, bad, and sex”, I’d pick sex as the one that “just doesn’t belong”, (as  you may remember the song goes).

The ability to help we who are in physical bodies reconnect with God(dess) is what prayer, meditation, and sex have in common.  And, as in the Tantric tradition all things lead back to God(dess).  Like those people who sit on heaps of garbage and connect with God.  The beauty of Tanra is that all things lead back to God.  So, why not pray, meditate, have sex, and then listen to some music while having milk and cookies?  Sounds like a perfect day to me!

Why do Orgasms Feel so Good?

Tuesday, May 29th, 2012

Basically, there are two reasons.  One is the more common reason that most people probably think about when they ask themselves this question.  It’s a physiological response. Blood flows to the genitals, both male and female, when sexual excitement occurs, and the intense feeling of pleasure that orgasm brings is the sensation that results when all the extra blood that’s been building up gets released at once.

Then there’s the other reason. This is the one that I really want to talk about.  It’s like Tantra 101: orgasm feels so good because when you experience orgasm you are one with God(dess).  Now, don’t freak out everyone.  I’m not talking about an invisible man in the sky that can punish you if you do bad things.  I’m talking about God, Source, All That Is, whatever you want to call it.

I think God has gotten a bad rap.  God has become very uncool.  We have been told many times to believe that God doesn’t want us to have sex, and that God basically doesn’t want us to do anything that’s any fun at all.  No wonder God has become so unpopular!

Nothing could be further from the truth.  Here’s the secret no one in organized religion wants you to know: God is pro-sex.  God wants us to have sex.  God is actually the definition of cool. God created every cool thing in the universe, including sex.  God wants us to have joy and pleasure and fun.  And the only reason we don’t do it more often is that we are creating resistance to all that good stuff.

When we experience orgasm, we have released all the resistance (the negative thoughts, the negative feelings, etc.) and there is nothing left separating us from God. We could even say it is S.E.X., Synergistic Energy Exchange, with God. ( Now I REALLY have to say:  don’t freak out everyone.  It is not sinful.)  Whether we are having an orgasm solo or with a partner, sex and orgasm can be a path to God, to enlightenment.  Now get out there and start getting more enlightened ;) !